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Everybody Needs Somebody (even when you don’t think so)

March 14, 2016 by Evelyn Parham

smiling-friends-joining-handsDo you think that you can get through this life, reach your goals, or be all that you can without any help? If you think you can, do it all yourself, then you are sadly mistaken.

Everybody needs somebody, even when you don’t think so.

Today, I share how certain people help me see that I am not an island unto myself.

The inspiration for this post came from a conversation I had with my cousin.

Procrastination Slows Down Success

I am the first to admit that I am a procrastinator, but I also know that procrastinating slows down success.

My cousin brought to my attention that I need to stop procrastinating and focus.

I know this, but it is always good to hear it.

My cousin also told me that I am a very smart person. He recommended that I focus on what I enjoy doing the most and give it my all.

I know this too, but sometimes I let fear get in the way.

As a result of the conversation I had with my cousin, I am now working on a project that I will complete.

The People on my Team

There are people in my life who are on my team. These people are always helping me in their own way. And who are the people on my team? The people on my team consist of:

  • family
  • friends
  • readers of this blog
  • those I help make healthy lifestyle changes
  • the person who sends me an email letting me know they appreciate what I do
  • and the person who tells me to keep doing what I do, because it doesn’t go un-noticed.

It is now up to me to acknowledge this team and not feel that I am alone in my journey because I am not alone.

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Messages from Angels

The angels that I refer to are real people who have touched my life. There is one angel in particular who touched my spirit one day and she said exactly what I needed to hear.

One day while Hannah and I were leaving the speech therapist, the therapist said such heartfelt words to me about my daughter. I could not help but break down in tears.

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Hannah holding Ms. Linda’s (SLP) hand in a therapy session. Image credit – Agape Speech Therapy

She gave me hug and I immediately felt a sense of relief (as if a huge burden lifted).

A tough exterior does not always mean that you are tough on the inside.

The therapist thought I was having a hard time, but I assured her that was not the case.

The reason I broke down in tears is because the words of my angel touched me deeply.

I knew it was for me to receive it and not worry anymore about my daughter.

Making Healthy Lifestyle Changes

Sharing a glimpse of my life with you is for you to realize that no matter what you go through in life, you will always need others in your life in some way.

Whatever healthy lifestyle changes you want to make, you can do it, but I implore you to get with people who can help you get where you want to go.

Surround yourself with people who are positive about what you are doing. No matter who you decide to have on your team, always remember that everybody needs somebody even when you don’t think so.

Fill your team with people who:

  • inspire you
  • encourage you to keep going even when you want to quit
  • bring out the best in you
  • tell you the truth in love
  • and truly care about seeing you reach your fullest potential.

Everybody needs somebody, even when you don’t think so.

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  1. Shelley Alexander says

    March 31, 2016 at 6:58 PM

    Evelyn, What a beautiful article! All of us need support, love, friendship and encouragement in our lives. I’m so happy you have a team and that your cousin provided inspiration for you to realize this. Thanks so much for writing this heartfelt article, I truly enjoyed it.

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    • Evelyn Parham says

      March 31, 2016 at 9:03 PM

      Hi Shelley!
      Thanks for stopping by and chiming in. And I am so happy that you enjoyed this post. 🙂

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  2. Mitch Mitchell says

    March 17, 2016 at 12:23 AM

    Hard to disagree with this one. At some point we all need someone in our lives. It makes life a lot more enjoyable, even if the relationships aren’t all that strong, but it’s much better when some of them are.

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    • Evelyn Parham says

      March 17, 2016 at 11:32 PM

      Yes, it does make life more enjoyable.
      Thanks for chiming in and sharing!!

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  3. Miss Linda says

    March 16, 2016 at 10:58 AM

    This article brought me to tears! Indeed, we ALL need positive influences in our lives! Thank you for taking the time and effort to write your blogs. I believe your words are inspired and written in truth. You have such a wonderful way with words!

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    • Evelyn Parham says

      March 16, 2016 at 10:14 PM

      Hi, Miss Linda!
      You are one of the sweetest persons I know. You have been so encouraging and positive about Hannah; it warms my heart helps me keep going. 🙂
      Thank you for commenting and walking with us on this journey!!

      P.S. I appreciate your compliment too!!

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  4. Mother says

    March 15, 2016 at 3:57 PM

    This is so true. I Love it! Sometimes we forget to remember what a village it takes to create our full lives.

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    • Evelyn Parham says

      March 16, 2016 at 10:10 PM

      Hi, Mother! So glad you enjoyed this post. 🙂 Thanks for sharing your wisdom!

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  5. Carolyn says

    March 15, 2016 at 2:06 PM

    Evelyn, such a heartfelt post, thank you! Evelyn, you are definitely on my team. You are graced with wisdom, kindness, and always speak the truth. God bless you abundantly!

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    • Evelyn Parham says

      March 16, 2016 at 10:09 PM

      Hi, Ms. Carolyn!
      That’s great to know. 😉 Thank you and many blessings to you!

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